You can choose your own path, you hopefully find the golden path, its called in literature a golden cut, its also famous in Michelangelous colourpaths.

You can fight od everything, or just enjoy and gain all the glory, and welfare to step in. You can do all in a hard way, or find the solutions, how the welfare is gained.

I am nowadays like a fugu-fish, its womens cross, if you want a kid and from the husband a kiss. You can choose your own path, choose the love without a crack.